Hi,
it seem that your daughter is open to tapping. If it's to embarrasing to tap openly (teenagers can be very cruel) she could just hold the finger points
on both hands nobody will notice. I do this often during challenging conversations with good results. Get Gary's Manual for a description of those points. I currently have one student who have been also very shy and anxious. She tap's the karate chop point openly in school. Often other kid's imitate her partly out of interest partly to make fun of her. She doesen't bother much anymore. Yet they are all improving ! Even her little brother who joins in when they watch tv has gotten calmer...
You might want to look up the audio-interviews on www.eftrevealed.com for more ideas on issues involved.
Please consult you physician on anything regarding the medication and further treatment.
Tapping on your own fears as a parent might also help the process.
Feel free to contact me if you have questions
All the best to you and your daughter
Dirk