Dear Beesmom,  Along with using the excellent phrases Syandra Ingram sent you, you might teach your daughter to use EFT for herself. Start by you showing her how it works with something easy and non judgemental, like a headache or a phobia like you did for yourself. When she sees how easy it is, you can tell her lots of kids her age use it on ...

I continually teach my students in my tumbling/dance classes to do EFT for themselves on their own, as well as with me.  I like starting at the grass roots and have them grow up with EFT with no inhibitions.  I have children ages 5-18 that clear their own headaches, asthma, menstrual cramps,anger issues, fear of math flash cards, etc etc ...