Hello Tracy, Welcome to the forum. There are literally dozens of angles that you can approach this from. In order to decide the best way forward I have a suggestion for you. It will take a bit of time but it is worth the effort. Take some time to list out in note form all the areas that are problematic...

About 2 years ago my son was given a diagnosis of eosinophilic esophagitis. He turns 5 next month. Short version... food allergies cause white blood cells to attack his esophagus causing inflamation which in turn causes vomitting, regurgitation, choking, and can eventually lead to permanent damage and...